Wednesday, October 22, 2014

No More "Breaking Bad" with Toys R Us

     

Most people have heard about the petition that was created on change.org a week ago by Ft Myers, Florida mother, Susan Schrivjer, to ban the sale of 'Breaking Bad' action figures (manufactured by Mezco Toyz) within Toys R Us.  Schivjer, who admitted to being a fan of the show, made a compelling argument that the figures were adult in content and should not be sold amongst children's toys; especially since they are packaged wearing hazmat suits and with components to create [fictitious] meth.    In her defense there are a plethora of shops that specialize in collectable action figures for adults and the 8,000 people that signed her petition appear to agree that those shops and NOT the place that [for years proclaimed to be] “where a kid can be a kid”.
    As of [late] Tuesday, the New Jersey based toy retailer expressed to the Associated Press that is would be pulling the action figures from its shelves and website.  This move has many believing that the voice of concerned parents/citizens is not mute to the ears of big business.  That in a day and age where it seems that children are being left to their own devices and parented via TV and social media…….someone still cares about who and what influences developing minds.
    Or, due to the petition’s close proximately to the largest shopping season of the year, the retailer decided damage control far outweighed potential loss of sales that a ‘scandal’ would create.  With 8,000 signatures surfacing in a week, and various media outlets reporting on the dolls being on the shelves, it would appear to be the most plausible business move. 
    Keep in mind, Schrivjer’s petition was not without opposition…..and that opposition came from a Manhattan Beach, California father by the name of Daniel Pickett.  According to Pickett (who launched his own petition to keep the action figures on the shelves), it is the responsibility of parents to govern what their children is exposed to.  Pickett also contends that Toys R Us has a longstanding reputation for stocking toys for all ages, and that tradition [if you will] should not be interrupted because subject matter that will be exposed to children in other arenas anyway.  Both parents on either side of the argument appear to agree upon that point, while differing as to what is appropriate to explain and govern in an environment targeted at children.

     3,000 signatures to Pickett’s petition give the impression that they too have no issue with action figures riddled with adult content are completely appropriate for display and sale in an environment where at any given time small children can be seen riddling the aisles.  Toys R Us does indeed have an adult figurine section in the store, and the “Breaking Bad” figurines were placed there [in limited supply], therefore, Pickett’s argument having such a backing is understandable.  But one may be inclined to point out that the other figurines are not accompanied by chemistry components that are widely known to exist in the world of meth making.
     When “Hunger Games” debuted to the world, the action figures made to accompany the film were displayed and sold at the retailer to zero chatter.  Many across the web have  also taken time to point out the amount of violent, adult content latent video games that are displayed and sold at the store as well and are in opposition to what has been labelled as of Wednesday as a ‘ban on “Breaking Bad’ dolls’. 
     Regardless of the side of the line drawn in the sand pertaining to this topic, for the time-being, “Breaking Bad” figurines will have to be purchased elsewhere by die hard and/or novice collectors.

Thursday, October 16, 2014

Trick-or-Treat for Murder


   

 On Halloween night 1957 just as they settled in for a night's rest, Peter and Betty Fabiano heard their doorbell ring at [approximately] 11:30 pm.  Believing that there were lingering candy chasers at the door, Peter journeyed down the stairs, grabbed the last few pieces of candy left from the night and opened the door.  Betty heard him utter, "Isn't is kind of late for this sort of thing?" The question was followed by a bang, a thump and finally a car speeding away.  Betty ran down the stairs to determine what the commotion was only to find her husband laying on his back with blood pouring out of his chest.......dying.  Peter died in the ambulance on its way to the hospital and it was determined upon arrival, that Peter died due to a .38-caliber bullet becoming lodged beneath his heart.
     Peter, a WWII veteran and hair stylist (who operated two salons in San Fernando Valley) appeared to be a model citizen, with no murderous enemies.  The only blemish on his record was a minor bookmaking charge from 1948, with that being said, initially it was difficult for police to determine the why and who regarding the 35 year old's murder.  It was a full two weeks before police officers uncovered a plausible suspect........Joan Rabel (40).  Rabel was a divorced freelance photographer that  worked in one of Peter's shops.  Upon being questioned by the police (as was Betty and ALL employees of Peter), Rabel proclaimed that the Fabiano's were "two of my closest friends".  That was [partially] a lie.  
     The Fabiano's had recently reconciled after a stent of living separately.  During the time of the separation, Betty Fabiano and Rabel became roommates and developed a friendship that (by all accounts) did not set well with Peter.  Upon the couple's reunion, Peter forbade ALL contact with Rabel, which sent her into a unshakable negative space. Especially since Betty (36) admitted that their separation occurred because of her relationship with Rabel. 
     On November 16th, Rabel was taken into to custody where her partial lies cast an even greater dark cloud over her head.  When asked about her whereabouts on Halloween night, she protested earnestly that she had not left her home and her proof  was her car that remained unmoved in front of her house.  That was another [partial] lie.  Police did confirm that her car did not move all night, but that Rabel did, courtesy of her friend Margaret Barrett's car that she had borrowed for the evening.  To explain that away Rabel said that she used the car to go grocery shopping.  With NO murder weapon and no eye witness to confirm or deny that Rabel pulled the trigger, she was released.
     On month after Rabel's release, investigators received an anonymous tip that led them to a rental locker at a department store which contained a .38 caliber pistol.  Ballistics confirmed that the pistol was indeed the murder weapon and a scan of sales receipts lead them to a meek LA Children's Hospital lab tech, Goldyne Pizer (42).  Pizer, unlike Rabel, had no poker face.  Through a sea of tears, she admitted to fatally shooting Peter......but because a woman had put a curse on her.  That woman that placed a curse on her was none other than Joan Rabel.
     According to Pizer, the three women had all been friends (for approximately 3 years) until Peter became uncomfortable with Rabel's closeness to Betty.  Once Betty was no longer a member of the trio, Rabel began ranting about him daily and the [now] duo became [increasingly] closer.  Pizer admitted that over that past few months leading up to the murder, Rabel had filled her head with tales of the "evil and vile" man "who was destroying everything around him". Pizer believed, without question, when she was told that Peter was cruel to his wife and step-children (Judy and Richard, from Betty's previous marriage). 

 
According to Pizer, "she said he mistreated his wife and that he was dealing in narcotics.......she told me he was always bothering her at home."

     Pizer began to hate Peter just as much as Rabel and confessed  to planning his murder alongside Rabel.  The two had considered using poison and a knife before settling on shooting him.  Rabel drove Pizer [several] times to his primary salon so that she would know what he looked like and provided the money for the gun used to kill him.  Pizer told the Pasadena gun salesman that she needed the weapon to protect herself, since she was a woman living alone...and he bought the story hook, line and sinker.....although she only bought 2 bullets.  
 
The murderous duo, planned the murder down to most of  the details.  Rabel borrowed Barrett's car, picked up Pizer and drove to the Fabiano home around 9 pm.  The two sat outside the home for more than 2 hours before Pizer dawned a Halloween costume (jeans, khaki jacket, hat, red gloves, domino mask and dark face paint) provided via Rabel in a paper bag.  After the bedroom light went out around 11:30 pm, Rabel looked at Pizer and said, "....go do it."  Pizer rang the doorbell twice and waited for Peter to open the door before removing the revolver from a paper bag.  Admittedly, she was trembling horribly, "I had to use the left hand to hold the right hand in order to pull the trigger."  
   After fatally wounding Peter with a single shot, Pizer ran back to the car, received a kiss and thank you from her Svengali and the two sped back to Barrett's house (where they left the khaki jacket in the car).  Upon parting ways, Rabel told Pizer, "forget you ever knew me" before Pizer cut up and torched the remaining components of the costume the following night.  It was also Pizer that hid the murder weapon in the pay locker.  
     Due to the confession made by Pizer (Rabel continued her stoic vow of silence), the duo was charged with first degree murder; to which Rabel plead innocent and Pizer, insanity.  On March 11, 1958, just before their trial was set to begin, the duo accepted a plea deal.  The charge was reduced to second degree murder with a sentence of 5 years to life.....which outraged the public.  A few years into their sentences, they were released.  As of 1971, Pizer was an officer in the Miracle Mile Chapter of the Professional Women's Club and died at the age of 83 (in 1998).  After her prison release, Rabel left no paper trail but is believed to have expired in her 80's as well.
    It has been widely speculated that Betty Fabiano was also involved in the planning of her second husband's murder, but no charges were ever filed against her.  She died in 1999 at the age of 81.

Tuesday, October 7, 2014

Mental Illness Awareness Week

   


Most people have NO idea that October plays host to Mental Illness Awareness is October 6th-12th.  October is primarily known for Halloween and Breast Cancer Awareness.  On top of not knowing about the awareness week, most Americans also have NO idea what mental illness is or how prevalent it is in our society.  26.2% of Americans (approximately 1 in 4) suffer from a [diagnosable] mental disorder in any given year.  As of the 2004 Census, 57.7 million people suffer from mental illness within the US.

    Mental illness is defined as a wide range of mental health conditions/disorders that affect mood, thinking and behavior.  Illness can cause problems in daily life ( including work and relationships), and can be managed via counseling and/or medications.  It is the leading cause of disability for individuals between the ages of 15-44 in the US and Canada; with 45% of those diagnosed fitting the criteria for at least 2 mental illnesses.
    From time to time all people walking the earth have (or experience) mental health "concerns" and concerns differ from actual illness.  Concerns occur from time-to time and do not truly affect a parson's life or livelihood.  Illness has ongoing signs and the symptoms cause frequent stress and affect the ability for a person to function.  Mental illness can form at any age and 1 in 4 adults have mental illness within a given calendar year.  Approximately 50% of Americans develop a form of mental illness in their lifetime......yet people will rumor and ridicule about mental illness as if it is the resurgence of the black death.  It is NOT.  Approximately half of chronic mental disorders present themselves by the age of 14 and 3/4 by the age of 24 in Americans.
     Serious mental illness costs the US $193.2 billion in lost earnings each year.  The below qualify as serious:

    • schizophrenia
    • bipolar disorder
    • obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)
    • panic disorder
    • post traumatic stress order (PTSD)
    • borderline personality disorder
    • major depression

     Just as any other ailment that effects people, mental illness has symptoms (keep in mind that they may vary according to the disorder and individual circumstances as well as other factors); the [general] symptoms  are as follows:

    •  feeling sad or down
    • confused thinking or reduced ability to concentrate
    • excessive fears or worries or extreme feelings of guilt
    • extreme mood changes of highs and lows
    • withdrawal from friends/activities
    • significant tiredness, low energy or problems sleeping
    • detachment from reality (delusions), paranoia or hallucinations
    • inability to cope with daily problems or stress
    • trouble understanding and relating to situations and to people
    • alcohol and/or drug abuse
    • major changes in eating habits
    • sex drive changes
    • excessive anger, hostility or violence
    • suicidal thinking
     At times symptoms present themselves physically as: 
    • stomach pain
    • back pain
    • headaches
    • unexplained aches and pains
     Mental illness is widely believed to be caused by a variety of genetic and environmental factors.  Those factors are as follows:
    • Inherited traits - Certain genes may increase a person's risk of developing a mutual illness.
    • Environmental Exposures [Before Birth] - Exposures to viruses, toxins, alcohol, or drugs while in the womb can (sometimes) be linked.
    • Brain Chemistry - Neurotransmitters (naturally occurring brain chemicals) play a role in SOME mental illness.  In some cases, hormonal imbalances affect mental illness.
     Risk factors for mental illness are as follows:
    • having a biological relative (parent or sibling) with an illness
    • experiences in the womb (the mother was exposed to viruses, toxins, drugs and alcohol)
    • chronic medical condition (i.e. cancer)
    • stressful life situations
    • brain damage
    • traumatic experiences
    • illegal drug use
    • being abused or neglected as a child
    • having few friends or few healthy relationships
    • previous mental illness
     Adults living with mental illness tend to die [on average] 25 years earlier than other Americans.  Suicide is the 10th leading cause of death (which is higher than homicide)  and is the 3rd leading cause of death in individuals 15-24 years old.  More than 90% of those that commit suicide have MORE than one mental disorder.  With that being said, did you know that about 60% of adults and almost 50%  of 8-15 year olds with mental illness received NO services/treatments/etc a year previous to a formal treatment plan being followed.  In other words, at any given time nearly half of our population roams about UNDIAGNOSED and UNTREATED. Lack of diagnosis and treatment  costs the nation more than $100 billion per year and comes with the following complications:
    • unhappiness and decreased enjoyment in life
    • weakened immune system
    • family conflicts
    • relationship difficulties
    • social isolation
    • problems with tobacco, alcohol and other drugs
    • missed work/school or other related problems
    • poverty/homelessness
    • self-harm and harm to others (including suicide and homicide)
    • increased risk of motor vehicle accidents
    • heart disease
     This does NOT mean that you should take the information above and attempt to diagnose those in your life......nor does it mean that you should perpetuate the stigma that has been place upon mental illness.  It means that you should look within.....get tested or lend a caring ear and welcoming shoulder to those that may suffer from the plethora of mental illnesses.
    Don't think that you know someone by blood relation, work or friendship?  Think about the following:
    • Approximately:
      • 2.4 million people live with schizophrenia
      • 6.1 million people live with bipolar disorder
      • 14.8 million people live with major depression
      • 42 million people live with anxiety disorders 
      • 9.2 million people live with co-occurring mental health and addiction disorders     
           Mental illness does NOT affect people according to social class, upbringing, educational level, religion or creed.  It is NOT something that you can "just get over" or combat via "will power".  Mental illness says NOTHING about a person's "character".  Mental illness is no different than an other than any other ailment such as diabetes or high blood pressure.  There is NO reason to feel ashamed for a diagnosis or for seeking treatment.  One is not ashamed of having heart disease.  One is not ashamed of blindness.  One should not be ashamed of being one of several millions of people that are battling right along side of you.
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